I AM Gopher It.

I wish I had been TAUGHT before I LEARNED the hard way

I wish I had been ‘EDUCATED’ before I learned the hard way.

To be or not to be? – That is a GOOD question.

There are all kinds of Predators in the world and the Bully, Narcissist, Psychopath and Sociopath ALL ‘fit in’ this category.

They will seek out the good, the vulnerable and the soft-hearted.

Who truly TEACHES AWARENESS and TRUTH of this type of person and to be able to recognise the way these predators work?

UP YOUR KNOWLEDGE and KNOW your WORTH.

WE ALL need to be AWARE of BEHAVIOURS and HOW they manifest to become a part of our personality if they are not identified as UNSIGHTLY.

PREDATORS PREY on the gentle who PRAY to be understood.

Rainbow children, Crystal children, Indigo children, Empath’s, HSP’s – whatever the label to describe a caring SOUL need to be AWARE of predatory behaviours.

An empath will keep looking for the good in others and most often make excuse or justify the bad behaviours of this type of person.

An empath will look at themselves in the mirror believing that ‘they’ must be the ‘better’ person and that somehow the trait they dislike in the predator is a reflection of self. Oh, how wrong! because that is exactly what the Predator wants you to believe and that is how they start to destroy.

Know HOW a manipulator works. They are emotional VAMPIRES, they drain ENERGY and avoid mirrors because they DO NOT self-reflect.

They are excellent at playing a mind game of manipulation and destruction of another’s mind, body and spirit for WHAT they FAIL to RECOGNISE as their own pain emitting from WITHIN themselves.

LEARN to recognise signs and patterns of behaviour of these predators.

LEARN to recognise WHY you may be attracting them.

LEARN to LOVE yourself exactly as you are and for who you are. Do not change because someone else tells you what you are.

LEARN to NOT make excuses for bad behaviour.

LEARN that it’s OK to not feel like you should like everyone and that everyone does not need to like you.

LEARN to SET BOUNDARIES that RESPECT SELF.

LEARN to know that it is ok to say ‘F – OFF’ because it sends a CLEAR message and do not be concerned if you receive a defensive reply because THAT is HOW manipulators work. (Gaslighting)

Personally, I find the words ‘FIT IN’ to be more disempowering words than ‘F – OFF’ but that was something I needed to LEARN.

KNOW YOUR OWN WORTH. Do not worry if some others cannot see it because once you compromise ONE thing, you will compromise more and then you will be ‘down there’ surrendering your SOUL to others.

BE TRUE, BE YOU!

It is better to be alone than to be with people who leave you feeling lonely.

Author – I AM Gopher It

Published by Gopher It

'Gopher It' came about as a result of an incident that turned my world ‘WRITE’ side up. Bullies ‘taught’ ME from a young age that MY LIFE was to be a game of strategy if I wanted to survive them. BULLYING is not a new issue, it has been around for centuries but people seem to be associating the word and its meaning more, OR ARE THEY? Have people become ‘educated’ to believe that bullies are not bullies, they are ‘management?' Life is not for surviving, it is for living and it would take an incident in 2017 that was to undeniably shake me awake. My heart took me to the hospital where I was to see and hear something that ONLY I was to witness - I received a DIVINE message. I was about to un-program from ALL that I never was, to be ALL that I AM. This is my journey of UNDERSTANDING what subconscious BELIEF system I had learnt and how I changed it. The Law of Attraction is just that, what vibration we emit we do attract back.